Saturday, December 13, 2008

Love and Relationships

Namaste to you all, well thing's have finally settled down for me over the past two weeks. I'm working on the Western Australian coast in a mining town called Karratha. It's not my kind of place, though it's serving it's purpose and that is to get fast cash. I've met alot of wonderful people here and believe I've met two life long friends, which is certainly a blessing.

I hope to leave around the 28th of December and head south for my next experience. I've been told by everyone there's some magical places all the way down the coast and the biggest blessing will be to get surfing again.

Now about the title, relationships can be at times one of the hardest things in our lives to have success in. Just about every human on this planet yearn's for that perfect relationship. I believe when everyone realises(as well as myself) that the perfect relationship we all seek, is first and foremost one with ourselves. When we feel good in ourselves, have self-love and are completely comfortable being by ourselves and comfortable with who we are, we then have a chance to bring that special someone into to our lives. As I believe like attracts like. Are relationships just for us to grow, help and learn together? I believe so.

I was contemplating the other day about the holy trinity many enlighten beings have talked about throughout time. For me the holy trinity is between god, yourself and your partner. Let me explain, when you have all of these three areas in your life in perfect harmony, then life is a wonderful, awesome experience. Unfortunately when you focus to much on anyone of these parts, I believe this creates suffering and usually a relationship breakup, whether it's with yourself, god or your partner.

So the key is to pay attention to the three parts of the trinity. Again as I've written before, BALANCE is the key. We all want to create a divine union with another person and the only way to do this is giving equal amounts of love and attention to all three. I see that it creates a stream from your heart to your partners and then to god. It keeps a constant flow of giving and receiving and that's how just about everything in this universe works. Give love and attention to self, god and your partner, receive love and attention from self, god and your partner, it's easy!(yeah right)

Now that I'm awake to this, I'm bringing it into my everyday life and what a transformation I have experienced. My heart is fully open to all that is, my love for self, life etc. has come back ten fold, I couldn't be more happier and at peace.

Another thing I've been fortunately enough to experience lately, is sharing. When I'm talking about sharing here I'm referring to sharing ones wounds, secrets and inner thoughts, in other words sharing everything. To be honest I've come to realise that I've never done this my entire life. The greatest reward from this, is I'm also doing it with a woman. That may sound strange but for one reason or another there's being parts of me that have never wanted to fully open up to a woman. I've always had blockages to this, parts of me that had an illusion that I couldn't trust anyone to reveal my stuff and feel safe doing so.

So whats been the result of sharing? I feel safe for a start, again that sounds strange but I know that deep down alot of people in this world don't feel completely safe to reveal their life experiences in case their not accepted or the other person might see them in a different light. Secondly I feel free, in fact I feel lighter then I have done for years, why? because I'm letting go of baggage. I'm letting go of stale energy that I guess I've been carrying around with me since I was a child. Thirdly to trust another in this world completely is a blessing in it's self. It's brought me such happiness to have finally let go and trust completely in someone else. I want to thank this person now with all my heart and soul. I have been so blessed to have you in my life, thank you.

I've also been talking to a friend about letting go on a conscious level all that isn't yours. In other words letting go of beliefs from your parents, your society and the global consciousness itself. When we realise that we're all carrying around heaps of other peoples stuff, then we can move forward in letting it all go and finally finding out who we truly are, what we truly believe in and how we would really act in everyday life. So this is what I'm going to focus on over the next few months(probably take a lifetime) is sorting out whats my stuff and whats everyone else's.


At 4:41 PM, Anonymous Liara Covert said...

Discerning what is and is not part of one's true core is itself an ongoing process.


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