The 6 Keys to Spiritual Dating
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The 6 Keys to Spiritual Dating
by Jill Crosby
Spiritual Dating or Conscious Dating is an enlightened way of meeting and dating. There are no rules or expectations, and its about being true to oneself and staying in the flow. Conscious dating is more fun than the traditional style of dating, and it yields much better results! As we raise our vibrational frequencies and approach fifth dimensional living, its more and more important to practice Spiritual Dating with respect to meeting a life partner as our thoughts and feelings are manifesting extremely fast!
The 6 Keys to Spiritual Dating:
#1 REMEMBERING OUR DIVINITY:
#2 BEING PRESENT and OPEN:
When we are truly PRESENT in the moment, we are OPEN to meeting the love of our life because we are paying attention. Enjoy each encounter, whether or not that person is a potential mate. When standing in line at the grocery store, book store, post office (anywhere!), pass up reading the magazines or thinking about what you are going to make for dinner. Instead, be receptive and conscious of who might be coming into your space. ENJOY the moment you are experiencing NOW! Be bold and say hi to people, initiate conversations and SMILE!
#3 BEING REALISTIC:
Chemistry comes in all shapes and sizes. Realize that our types
have most likely been created by mass media programming and therefore
the collective consciousness. Break free of this illusion, the matrix,
if you will, and feel someones SOUL, their beingness,
their heart. Our life partner may not look like the type we
have been conditioned to see as attractive. They may be taller, shorter,
thinner, or thicker, so let go of the attachment to how someone appears
and look deeper. As we thoroughly enjoy and experience every person we
encounter, we can appreciate their uniqueness and see their Divinity.
Listening to our guidance and knowing that we may be drawn to someone
because they are our life partner, or maybe for another reason, perhaps
they have some important insight or information for us.
#4 BEING REAL:
Being real means letting ones guard down and getting out of ego; being oneself without trying to empress or show off. When in a relationship, true selves and personalities are eventually revealed and observed by our partner, so its more efficient to be genuine from day one. By expressing our true selves, we send out that energy to the quantum field and magnetize a partner that is also being REAL!
When on a date, practice active LISTENING. Instead of planning out what we are going to say next, or worrying about how we look, active listening involves being present and focused on the other person while they are speaking. With an open heart, listen and feel what the other person is saying. Be there for them 100%. When talking, speak from the heart, and allow the conversation to flow naturally. Allow time for silence and just being together. Remember to breathe and relax.
#6 STAYING IN THE FLOW:
Getting out of our head and following our heart, our feelings and the current energy is the essence of staying in the flow. When we are tapped into our Divinity, we know what to do, where to go, who to talk with etc... When in the flow, there is no thinking things through for hours, days or weeks .it just happens. Its part of being present and open. Being open to whatever is in our highest and best for each moment and trusting that we are being perfectly guided by our higher selves (that part of us that always remembers its Divine connection), is the key to staying in the flow. Letting go of expectations and preconceived ideas about what something should look like, or how something should be is essential.
Spiritually dating creates a fun, enriching experience to be savored and thoroughly enjoyed. When these six keys are put into practice, results happen quickly, and its possible to be experiencing a blissful, devoted, loving relationship in no time, so ENJOY the process!
Jill Crosby founded www.spiritualsingles.com
in 1998 and was a consultant in the dating industry for 10 years. She
has been personally responsible for hundreds of long term relationships
and marriages. She is also a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, an Intuitive,
a Healer and a dynamic public speaker and workshop/retreat leader, currently
facilitating Wild Dolphin & Whale Swim Retreats for Singles. See www.spiritualevents.com
for details and registration.